My last girlfriend never admitted that she played with herself whenever the need arose. I knew she did because I found her stash of sexual paraphernalia, chief among which was her Rabbit.
Of course, I never told her I found these things because I really wanted her to come clean (pardon the pun). To make a long story short, we broke up and I never got to hear her utter those 3 beautiful words: I masturbate sometimes.
Watching women masturbate is sexy
There’s something about watching women masturbate that drives me crazy. I’m not sure what it is exactly, but I’ve come up with a couple of theories:
It proves you love sex
I’ve always known that women think about and want sex as much as the next guy, but this takes things one step further by giving me visual proof of it. And I love nothing more than a woman who loves to have sex – especially with me. Watching women masturbate only drives this point home.
It proves you know what you’re doing
You know what gets you off and, chances are, when we’re in bed, you’ll take charge if only to experience the sensation via my erection. This proves that you know your body and how to manipulate it to climax. And if your ability to pleasure yourself is so on target, there’s an even better chance that you’ll be able to get me off just right.
It’s exciting watching women masturbate
Watching you get yourself off via toys or even your own hands is incredibly arousing because your body is soft and sensual. And holding onto and squeezing your nipple with one hand while you massage your clitoris with the other is always a welcomed sight. Add to that the panting, the moaning and the writhing, and you’ve got yourself a fan for life.
Admit that you masturbate
Although my last girl never told me she did, all my other girlfriends not only admitted it, but they played for me. And often.
Of course, there is always that one guy (there’s one in my group of friends) who thinks that watching women masturbate is somehow a threat to his sexual existence, but the majority of guys would be more than willing to not only watch, but to buy you whatever it is you need to enhance your playtime.
There’s nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, I think it’s even more acceptable to discover that a woman masturbates than it is for a man. Perhaps it’s because popular belief dictates that men who masturbate are somehow deprived and depraved, but women who do so are on a journey through sexual exploration. At least that’s how the romance novels tell it.
Make it part of foreplay
The next time you’re with your guy and you’re about to get it on, let your fingers casually make their way to your clitoris and begin massaging it. After he smiles, ask him to lick you while you play.
Another incredibly sexy thing you could do is play with yourself for a while and then lick your finger. If you enjoy what you taste, you can bet he will, too.
And yet another erection builder includes you sticking your finger in his mouth and letting him wet it with his saliva and then rubbing your clitoris with it (or even inserting it into yourself).
Men love watching women masturbate
Now before you rush off to the sex shop to get yourself a new gadget, you need to understand that no man wants to see you pull out a 24” vibrator with bells, whistles and a horn.
We do, however, enjoy watching you turn on your simple buzzer or just use your hands, and moan with delight while we suck on your nipples and enjoy the experience right along with you.
And if you have yet to experience the liberation that comes with masturbation, let me be the first to say, it all comes together once you do. Most men love watching women masturbate and your man will likely smile ear to ear when you do.
Get to know yourself, become comfortable at play, and then ask your guy to join you.
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